1. when it comes to sex there is nothing like 'normal'. Every person, couple, group have sex differently. 2. 'fetishes (which is acually an inacurate word, but we know what it means is just knowing what and how you like and liking it with a passion. Most people like chocolate and eat it nonchallantly, some people only buy the best, nibble a fraction at a time and melt it on their tongue. Both are fine, healthy approaches to chocolate! adding more in next reply!